What Do Women Need?

This is from a man named David Shade ( http://www.masterful-lover.com/ ), who teaches men how to satisfy women:
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Women may not know it, and most of them certainly cannot articulate it, but women need four things in order to be fulfilled.

There Are Four Important Things A Woman Needs

First, she needs to feel appreciated for the unique individual that she is. She needs to feel special, unlike any other woman. And she needs to know that her man supports her in her endeavors.

Second, she needs to feel that deep intimate emotional connection. She needs to have that emotional intimacy with her man. It's a connection she shares only with him.

Third, she needs to feel like a woman. She needs to feel beautiful, sexy, and feminine. She needs to enjoy all those things that comes with being a woman.

And finally, she needs hot passionate sex. She needs to be seduced, enticed, teased, and satisfied, over and over again. She needs to experience new things, in new ways, including fantasies and roles. It makes her feel alive.

If Only She Could Have All That She Needs

A woman is most fulfilled when she is with a man that she has everything with. When all four things are there, it makes each thing even more powerful. That is when she is with a man that she is wildly crazy about.

Imagine if she could meet a man who easily met all of her needs. A man who made her feel appreciated. A man who evokes a deep powerful emotional connection with her. A man who makes her feel feminine and womanly and sexy. A man who gives her hot passionate sex. It's the kind of thing women dream about.
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So, what do you think? Agree, disagree? The interesting thing is these are almost identical to the major needs of a man in an intimate relationship/partnership. Well, except you have to substitute "man" for "woman" obviously. :-)

Believe it or not, the hardest of these for a lot of men to see is the fourth one: hot, passionate sex. Due to what we were taught growing up and because of our previous experiences, it's hard for many of us to imagine that women actually WANT sex! And even when we know in our logical minds that you do, there's still that voice in the back of our minds that says women are too pure to enjoy wild sex and fantasies. We also have trouble grasping that what women really want is a man who takes the lead and is his own man. After all, we've always heard (starting with our mothers) that we should defer to women and put them on a pedestal.

Your comments are welcome. And I highly recommend David's site and ebook if you've got a partner who is clueless about how to really make you feel like the woman you want to be.

Owen Johnson
coach@man2woman.net